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Stacks & Cats Monday

As a pornographer and cam ho, I don’t deal in cash the way other sex workers do.  I just get boring checks and wire transfers like some kind of grown up with an office job.  When I withdrew cash at the bank for a trip, I had to get a photo of some of my earnings with my life partner/pimp/BFF, Mr. Mouse.Furry Girl

Ariel Levy’s Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture (2005)

I can’t quite say I disliked Female Chauvinist Pigs—though as a sex worker I feel like I should, as it grossly misunderstands and oversimplifies my industry. Author Ariel Levy discusses how women’s participation in modern “raunch culture” is a step backwards for both feminism and the sexual revolution. While earlier generations focused on sexual freedom as related to pleasure and intimacy, the supersexualized post-Girl Power years seem to be more about sexual commodification and performance. As Levy says, “The glossy, overheated thumping of sexuality in our culture is less about connection than consumption.”

Levy brings up good points about the way that mainstream society has appropriated the sex industry, and how women have began imitating the douchiest of men in their objectification of one another. She talks about misogyny within lesbian and trans communities, and some of the general failings of the modern feminism and the sexual revolution. “Raunch” poses as a result of  both movements, but actually betrays them. According to Levy, “This is not a book about the sex industry; it is a book about what we have decided the sex industry means … how we have held it up, cleaned it off, and distorted it.”

I agree with the general assertions in Female Chauvinist Pigs: L.A.-style hetero porn culture (which has seeped into mainstream Hollywood culture) has messed up our heads and sex lives. Looking and acting like a sex worker, without actually getting paid, has become hipper than ever. I find this particularly irritating for actual sex workers: it devalues what we do as work and performance, rather than the acute narcissism and approval-seeking that’s fashionable in pop culture.

Quote of the Week

Slavery becomes conflated in evangelical rhetoric with more divisive matters of sexual morality, from pornography and prostitution to abortion. […] In nearly every conversation I have with Christians about sexual slavery, the issue of pornography comes up. They assume that bondage and consenting self-exposure are similarly an affront to what God has in mind for us.

Jonathan D. Fitzgerald on Evangelical Christians’ involvement in anti-sex trafficking measures.

The Weekly Unwrap

Kayla, a Portland dancer and recording artist, made several playlists and contributed an original track to Stripper Music Monday.

Kat went to a vagina beauty pageant.

Charlotte interviewed Laura Agustín. Part one and part two.

Bettie finds Larry Flynt creepy.

Story takes a look at Katherine Frank’s 2002 research into strip club regulars.

Rocket on the particular risks of being photographed publicly as a sex worker.

Kat’s interview with San Francisco strip club documentary photographer Alicia Vera.

Laurenn McCubbin talks about sex work-inspired art and Las Vegas with Catherine.

The New Jersey Donut Ho and other sex workers in strange locations.

What becomes of a not-quite “Hipster Hooker?”

The Week in Links: August 5

See American competitor Victor Gathing this weekend.The first International Pole Dance Competition in the U.S. will take place in Denver this weekend.

Secrets, a London strip club, is planning to release a book on U.K. stripper slang.

A St. Louis entrepreneur is struggling keep his BDSM club open, despite hostility from neighbors and zoning conflicts with the city.

Eva Longoria Tweeted photos of her pole dancing bruises.

A British decathlete works as a stripper to fund his training.