Dear Tits & Sass: Overly Attached Client Edition

Dear Tits and Sass, Last February, I met Phil off a sugar dating site. He was extremely effusive in quasi-personal affection towards me during our first meeting, to the point that I realized he was an attachment risk and considered not seeing him again. (He’d had a recent and extremely nasty divorce.) But I agreed to… Continue reading Dear Tits & Sass: Overly Attached Client Edition

The Week In Links: October 12

It took us a while to realize that the joke in this ad was “bust a nut” and not “crack a nut.” Narratively has a feature on sex work activism that features our own “Ask A Pro,” Sarah Patterson. The Naussau County NY District Attorney wrote about her decision to prohibit prosecutors in her office… Continue reading The Week In Links: October 12

Sex Work and Storytelling at “Sex and Justice”

Long ago before I had ever begun to use the term “sex work” or could even have guessed at what aå Sex and Justice conference would entail, I began processing my experiences in sex/work by telling my story. For a long time I kept that story in the place where I had left it: journals, then later… Continue reading Sex Work and Storytelling at “Sex and Justice”

Ask A Pro: Immunity Boosters

Ask A Pro is a our column focusing on work and health, intended to share straightforward information about what you can do to keep yourself as safe as possible while on the job. Questions will be answered by sexual health expert Sarah Patterson, M.Ed. (See full bio below.) Questions you’d like to have answered can be sent… Continue reading Ask A Pro: Immunity Boosters

The Week In Links: October 6

Boy, it was a big week for Nick Kristof, what with the PBS premiere of his “Half The Sky” documentary. We know you all would much rather hear some actual sex workers talk about the damage he’s done in the guise of saving women. President Obama’s speech at the Clinton Global Initiative last week also… Continue reading The Week In Links: October 6