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		By: An Intimate Life: Sex, Love, and My Journey As A Surrogate Partner (2013)		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[An Intimate Life: Sex, Love, and My Journey As A Surrogate Partner (2013)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Sep 2013 18:22:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] (yeah, I went there) and get to do it out in the open while trans women of color simply dare to carry condoms in public, and they get arrested? Nu-uh. Not okay. But maybe that&#8217;s another way she&#8217;s not like [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] (yeah, I went there) and get to do it out in the open while trans women of color simply dare to carry condoms in public, and they get arrested? Nu-uh. Not okay. But maybe that&#8217;s another way she&#8217;s not like [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2013 23:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5833&quot;&gt;MM&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, we are aware and appropriately disgusted by Ruhama, their role in the Laundries, and their role in advising the Irish gov to adopt the Swedish model of criminalizing full service workers&#039; clients. We&#039;ve written about them in Week In Links past. But it&#039;s good to keep on emphasizing the connection between them and the Laundries as often as possible, so thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5833">MM</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, we are aware and appropriately disgusted by Ruhama, their role in the Laundries, and their role in advising the Irish gov to adopt the Swedish model of criminalizing full service workers&#8217; clients. We&#8217;ve written about them in Week In Links past. But it&#8217;s good to keep on emphasizing the connection between them and the Laundries as often as possible, so thanks!</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5854</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2013 23:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5793&quot;&gt;Kathryn&lt;/a&gt;.

Just as a clarification---&quot;sex workers&quot; includes everyone who works in the sex industry (some even include those in managerial positions in some cases.) Almost all the people you described above all fit into the definition, and all of them could have a case made for them. &quot;Strippers, sexual surrogates, adult film actors&quot; are all CERTAINLY sex workers. There&#039;s a misconception going around that &quot;sex worker&quot; is a euphemism for full service worker---that misconception can hopefully be debunked in this conversation. 

I totally agree with your logic that if you yourselves do not create regulations for your business, they will be created *for* you, which is why I wrote that you&#039;re keeping admirably to the nothing-about-us-without-us ethic.  I just think that you&#039;re basically creating a standard for your labor, and thus perhaps there should be a bit more focus on the rights of the worker and less on the rights of the clients. My opinion doesn&#039;t really matter all that much, though--it&#039;s your marketplace and your labor, and the important thing is that your the ones creating the standard you want to be held to--self-determination at its finest.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5793">Kathryn</a>.</p>
<p>Just as a clarification&#8212;&#8220;sex workers&#8221; includes everyone who works in the sex industry (some even include those in managerial positions in some cases.) Almost all the people you described above all fit into the definition, and all of them could have a case made for them. &#8220;Strippers, sexual surrogates, adult film actors&#8221; are all CERTAINLY sex workers. There&#8217;s a misconception going around that &#8220;sex worker&#8221; is a euphemism for full service worker&#8212;that misconception can hopefully be debunked in this conversation. </p>
<p>I totally agree with your logic that if you yourselves do not create regulations for your business, they will be created *for* you, which is why I wrote that you&#8217;re keeping admirably to the nothing-about-us-without-us ethic.  I just think that you&#8217;re basically creating a standard for your labor, and thus perhaps there should be a bit more focus on the rights of the worker and less on the rights of the clients. My opinion doesn&#8217;t really matter all that much, though&#8211;it&#8217;s your marketplace and your labor, and the important thing is that your the ones creating the standard you want to be held to&#8211;self-determination at its finest.</p>
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		By: MM		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5833</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Mar 2013 15:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi there! Delighted to see you writing on Magdalene Laundries. You may already be aware of this, as I know the site has written about it in the past, but just in case I thought I&#039;d write here:
The organisation Ruhama are behind the &quot;Turn off the Red Light Campaign&quot; which seeks to conflate sex work with trafficking and erase the voices of sex workers (going as far as to get a pimp (who has quite a strong interest in sex workers not having strong rights)) to pose as an ex-sex worker. Ruhama are run by two of the same orders who ran the Magdalene Laundries.
I first became aware of Ruhama when there was a gardai (irish police) bust at a brothel and the men visting the brothel were named and shamed (in a small community) and ordered to pay money to Ruhama. Which enrages me because the orders that ran the Magdalene Laundries refuse to pay out to the many victims of their horrible laundries.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there! Delighted to see you writing on Magdalene Laundries. You may already be aware of this, as I know the site has written about it in the past, but just in case I thought I&#8217;d write here:<br />
The organisation Ruhama are behind the &#8220;Turn off the Red Light Campaign&#8221; which seeks to conflate sex work with trafficking and erase the voices of sex workers (going as far as to get a pimp (who has quite a strong interest in sex workers not having strong rights)) to pose as an ex-sex worker. Ruhama are run by two of the same orders who ran the Magdalene Laundries.<br />
I first became aware of Ruhama when there was a gardai (irish police) bust at a brothel and the men visting the brothel were named and shamed (in a small community) and ordered to pay money to Ruhama. Which enrages me because the orders that ran the Magdalene Laundries refuse to pay out to the many victims of their horrible laundries.</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5818</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 03:23:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5816&quot;&gt;story&lt;/a&gt;.

I like them too, actually.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5816">story</a>.</p>
<p>I like them too, actually.</p>
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		By: story		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5816</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 02:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[just my two cents as past contributor and consistent reader, i appreciate academic-y articles once in a while.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just my two cents as past contributor and consistent reader, i appreciate academic-y articles once in a while.</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5802</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 21:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5795&quot;&gt;story&lt;/a&gt;.

I was actually thinking about asking her to contribute myself! Your suggestion sort of seals the deal. Though, her writing, while immeasurably awesome, is a bit too academic and heavy for TAS. But I&#039;d love to find out if she&#039;s interested in adopting a lighter style/tone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5795">story</a>.</p>
<p>I was actually thinking about asking her to contribute myself! Your suggestion sort of seals the deal. Though, her writing, while immeasurably awesome, is a bit too academic and heavy for TAS. But I&#8217;d love to find out if she&#8217;s interested in adopting a lighter style/tone.</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5801</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 21:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5800&quot;&gt;Andrew&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Andrew, I rectified that. Johanna and I are sorry to have made two errors that astute readers had to correct this week.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5800">Andrew</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Andrew, I rectified that. Johanna and I are sorry to have made two errors that astute readers had to correct this week.</p>
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		By: Andrew		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/week-in-links-march-15th/#comment-5800</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 17:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[SWEAT isn&#039;t a sex workers Organisation. It works for sex workers rights and has helped to set up the sex workers&#039; Organisation in South Africa called Sisonke. It also helped start ASWA,  African Sex Workers Alliance.
Not saying SWEAT is bad, they do great work. But they rarely correct articles or assumptions by donors and people who promote then that they aren&#039;t actually sex worker run and employ mostly non sex workers...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SWEAT isn&#8217;t a sex workers Organisation. It works for sex workers rights and has helped to set up the sex workers&#8217; Organisation in South Africa called Sisonke. It also helped start ASWA,  African Sex Workers Alliance.<br />
Not saying SWEAT is bad, they do great work. But they rarely correct articles or assumptions by donors and people who promote then that they aren&#8217;t actually sex worker run and employ mostly non sex workers&#8230;</p>
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		By: story		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[story]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 05:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[thanks for the link to &quot;Sarah M&quot;&#039;s article. definitely a beautiful doozy of a piece. she has her email at the bottom of the article. titsandsass contributor maybe?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for the link to &#8220;Sarah M&#8221;&#8216;s article. definitely a beautiful doozy of a piece. she has her email at the bottom of the article. titsandsass contributor maybe?</p>
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