The thing is her photos are so nice that they alone are worth praise. Just more prudish self resentment to ruin a good mood. Fey defined.

Her jokes are like a 10 year old’s, spoken by a mature woman. “Did you hear about the hooker that got killed? She was doing it at some point!”
I love that every crappy comedy is on tv because it’s crappy. But with Fey, the soft bigotry of lowered expectations means we have to say that a woman comedian must be some sort of super intellectual.

can I just say as a lazy person that this would in fact be my dream job, if it really existed. The stuff I have done/still sometimes do in the kinky sex industry sometimes approximates such lack of effort, but not nearly enough for my lazy taste.

I know that’s totally off topic. On topic, I’d like to say – it’s one of the reasons I loved the article on here about that lady who wrote a book about looking for sugar daddies: there is so much to know and very specific skills involved in prostitution. I say that as somebody who’s made half-assed attempts to combine kinky whoring with full service, where I’ve felt like, thank god I’ve known this client for years and he likes me, because I’d *so* be in over my head right now if he were a new client expecting someone to act like an escort who knew some shit.

It’s not like I didn’t/don’t know how to fuck or suck or whatever, it’s…I don’t know, there’s something about the fact that doing it for money has a few different factors of structure to it (time boundaries that need to be respected while balanced against pacing of the experience and its intended climax; agreed-upon acts vs stuff they’re not going to get, etc.) that makes it more complicated than what my lazy self day dreams of. And I don’t know how people learn that shit without the help of other women in the industry – I learned EVERYTHING I needed to know from other women in pro bdsm. And, at the very beginning when I went out on my own (instead of working at a commercial dungeon), I learned what I needed to know from a friend who’d been an escort.

So the hubris of people thinking either a) there’s nothing to it but spreading your legs and counting your money and/or b) there’s no value in the experience of women who’ve been doing it successfully for a while, it irritates the hell out of me. That goes for stripping too, and porn, and all of it. I’m not trying to claim it’s brain surgery, but you know what, my first job at Kentucky Fried Chicken wasn’t brain surgery either, but I didn’t just walk in my first day knowing how to make the fucking biscuits. It’s misogynist that people feel the need to heap dismissal on top of disrespect towards women who are voluntarily in the sex industry.

p.s. if Tits and Sass has a please-don’t-leave-mile-long-comments-on-our-posts policy, I’ve missed that information and so will need to be told directly.