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By: Strip Club Tourist Reports: Strip Club DJ Edition

Strip Club Tourist Reports: Strip Club DJ Edition — Fri, 11 Jan 2013 20:30:48 +0000

[…] club tourist reports comes in two main forms: I’m Not That Kind Of Guy and I’m Not A Guy. This week, I learned about a third type: I Was A Strip Club DJ For A Night, in the form of […]

By: bunny

bunny — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 06:28:18 +0000

(Totally late to the party, just stumbled onto this site!)

Okay. So I’ve never danced or stripped, just done fetish and vid work (I’m in no way coordinated enough to dance).

When I worked in a dungeon, each girl disinfected all the surfaces after each session. It seems like such a no-brainer. It completely baffled me that THAT was what the girl thought was super demeaning. Not deciding in her head “Okay, since I’m a dude, these women aren’t complete beings anymore. tra la la. I shouldn’t have fantasy patronizing moral issues! I’m a MAN.”

and just… ugh. To the whole thing. Her advice to the dudes? “Don’t try to solve her problems, just listen. Ask her if she’s lost weight every now and again, even if you know she hasn’t. And when dealing with her nether regions, always go softer and slower than you think you should.”

I … can’t even… excuse me? There is so much wrong with that sentence! Internalized misogyny, fatphobia, gender essentialism, S&M phobia bingo!

I don’t feel like going into the “one of the guys” business since everyone else has done so well, I just had to express my 0.0 eyes at reading this article.

~bunny

By: mumtaza

mumtaza — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:23:28 +0000

On 2nd thought I’m calling Bullshit on the whole thing. I think she faked an orgasm in a pathetic attempt to get positive attention from a set of very douchey guys who don’t come out of the woodwork as seeming like human beings either. This is why I could never make it in the straight world because I don’t accept that people act like this. She’s an asshole.

By: mumtaza

mumtaza — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:14:43 +0000

I don’t get it. She clearly had a fantastic time. She had some sort of fantastic sex (if even in her own mind) with Treasure. Why does she have to be so shitty about it?? And dismissive and mean. it seems like she is “roleplaying misogyny in “”a further attempt to be one of the guys. Pardon the quotation marks, I can’t seem to remove them from the comment. I see how tourists are going to fuck up on some level because they don’t know exactly how to act. but she went somewhere and someone nice that she picked made her come. shouldn’t she say something good?

By: mumtaza

mumtaza — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 14:35:07 +0000

Bravo on the showgirls roleplay! That’s a good night out.

By: Elle

Elle — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 17:41:44 +0000

And check out how I blasted “Chaz Bono” on the she-wired blog, under the pseudonym “philanges”. 😉

By: Elle

Elle — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 07:20:29 +0000

I don’t understand why psycho jealous lesbian couples go to strip clubs. I like to go with my girlfriend and we pick out the one we like the most and play that scene from showgirls where Crystal Connors and the dude that bangs Jessie Spano in the pool go to the Cheetah!!! Good times!
Btw… I love Jumbos, if you go there ask for Violet. She’s a total babe!

By: story

story — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 10:24:55 +0000

holy good god, i just read the whole article.

she actually said, ” Usually I would comment about this demeaning state of affairs but not tonight. Tonight I wasn’t a conscientious woman wondering about these girls and their messed-up childhoods. Tonight I was one of the guys participating in a long-standing bachelor party tradition.”

please don’t ever wonder about my messed up childhood

since god forbid you ever release yourself from the incredibly arrogant assumption that i even have a messed up childhood.

By: story

story — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 10:11:51 +0000

please bring us more tourist stories plus your analysis! there’s a sort of reverse examination going on. they come examine us all the time. but now we get to examine the tourists. what are they really thinking? why are they doing THAT? and what the fuck did they go home and write about? thanks for searching these strange creatures out and giving them to us here.