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		<title>Dear Tits and Sass: Boundaries</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2016 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Tits and Sass, I&#8217;ve been a worker for around ten years now and have been full time for around the latter half of that. Navigating having a partner while being a worker is nothing new to me. However, I&#8217;ve been with my current partner for around a year and over the last few months I&#8217;ve&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/dear-tits-and-sass-boundaries/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Dear Tits and Sass: Boundaries</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>So You Think You Can Fuck A Sex Worker For Free?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anon PO'd Ho]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2016 14:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sit down. I have news for you. If you&#8217;re trying to date or hook up with someone you know from their work in escorting or porn, without paying them, your chances of success are close to zero. This is true even if we favorite your adoring comments on Twitter. It may come as a shock&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/so-you-think-you-can-fuck-a-sex-worker-for-free/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">So You Think You Can Fuck A Sex Worker For Free?</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Things I&#8217;ve Learned During My First Year Pro-Subbing</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[April Rain]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 18:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I’ve been pro-subbing for less than a year. I tiptoed into it slowly, unsure of how to advertise or snag clients. When I started providing, I advertised light domme services, but I usually just ended up massaging guys or slapping them around a bit. I soon realized that, in both my professional and personal life,&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/things-ive-learned-during-my-first-year-pro-subbing/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Things I&#8217;ve Learned During My First Year Pro-Subbing</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Same Bat Time: The Regulars Round Table, Part Two</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[You can find the first part of this round table here. Has anyone had a regular whom they legitimately could not stand? The kind of guy that just wouldn&#8217;t go away? Maybe his personality was foul, or maybe he was living in a fantasy world with you? What are some defense mechanisms for coping that&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/same-bat-time-the-regulars-round-table-part-two/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Same Bat Time: The Regulars Round Table, Part Two</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Same Bat Time: The Regulars Round Table, Part One</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2015 14:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[What do most sex workers, from cam girls to escorts, have in common? Their regulars! Whether they&#8217;re consistently annoying, consistently charming, or consistently forgettable, they&#8217;re certainly an enduring feature of our lives. So we got a stripper, a pro domme, and two escorts into an endless e-mail chain together to see what they came up&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/same-bat-time-the-regulars-round-table-part-one/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Same Bat Time: The Regulars Round Table, Part One</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Man Calls Cops on Stripper That Won’t Screw Him: Stripping Isn’t Sex Work Lite</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lane Champagne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2014 14:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One of the brightest spots of sex work activism is when some bright-eyed bushy-tailed sex-worker-to-be finds her way into the space and wants to know the best way to get into our sordid business. “Come, little one! Join me in the fresh hellscape that is the business of selling sexual services,” I declare, fancying my&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/man-calls-cops-on-stripper-that-wont-screw-him-stripping-isnt-sex-work-lite/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Man Calls Cops on Stripper That Won’t Screw Him: Stripping Isn’t Sex Work Lite</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Outcasts Among Outcasts: Drug-Using Sex Workers in the Sex Workers&#8217; Rights Movement, Part 2</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/outcasts-among-outcasts-drug-using-sex-workers-in-the-sex-workers-rights-movement-part-2/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2013 15:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[(You can find part one of this discussion here) Caty: I&#8217;ve seen former drug-using sex workers like Kate Holden write that trading sex for drugs directly with a dealer was &#8220;just tacky,&#8221; and in my shallow, callow early years as a heroin-using escort, I often said the same thing. But the real reason I&#8217;ve avoided doing&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/outcasts-among-outcasts-drug-using-sex-workers-in-the-sex-workers-rights-movement-part-2/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Outcasts Among Outcasts: Drug-Using Sex Workers in the Sex Workers&#8217; Rights Movement, Part 2</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Is The Customer Always Right? On Professionalism and Boundaries, Part 1</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/is-the-customer-always-right-on-professionalism-and-boundaries-part-1/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2013 15:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Below, four in-person sex working professionals discuss how to maintain boundaries while keeping clients happy, the most common problems that cause conflicts with customers, and what they think professionalism means in the context of a career plagued by stigma and illegality. Part two will be posted tomorrow. The women weighing in are Lori Adorable, Amanda&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/is-the-customer-always-right-on-professionalism-and-boundaries-part-1/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Is The Customer Always Right? On Professionalism and Boundaries, Part 1</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Road From Sugarbaby To Escort</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/the-road-from-sugarbaby-to-escort/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Avery Day]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 17:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Money]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you’re 23 and getting divorced after 5 years of staying home, the only logical thing to do is to look for a sugar daddy, no? It made perfect sense to me; I wasn’t interested in a serious relationship, but being taken out on nice dates and having help with the bills seemed like a&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/the-road-from-sugarbaby-to-escort/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">The Road From Sugarbaby To Escort</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>You Probably Think This Post Is About You: A Guide to Unwanted Emails</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/you-probably-think-this-post-is-about-you-a-guide-to-unwanted-emails/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suzyhooker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 14:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Having a blog about working in the sex industry often results in all kinds of emails. There are precious nuggets from wonderful like-minded people with whom you otherwise wouldn&#8217;t have had the chance to connect, people whose comments and emails make you feel less alone in the world. There are the cool fans who anonymously&#8230; <a class="more-link" href="https://titsandsass.com/you-probably-think-this-post-is-about-you-a-guide-to-unwanted-emails/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">You Probably Think This Post Is About You: A Guide to Unwanted Emails</span></a>]]></description>
		
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