All of these work. Visualizing the wad you are going to walk into your safety deposit box. Closing your eyes “because I’m so relaxed with you baby”. In the champagne room, I climb onto the back of the couch and give them a massage so I don’t have to look at them for a little while.

Last week I made up an elaborate story about meeting a Saudi heiress in vegas who made me her sugar baby. He ate it up!

Sometimes I blast the music in the champagne room and make my custies dance for me, most of them get into it. If they don’t, I’ll waltz with them.

Please do! xo

Regarding the ‘excuse yourself to perform feminine hygiene or etc’, I used to do this all the time!

“Oh, I have to go change my outfit, what color do you prefer, blue or black?”

This way it includes them somehow, but I can still seek solace in the dressing room for a few minutes.

I’m working on getting to the point where I’m booking extended appointments, though I find even 2-3 hours a bit daunting, as it’s short enough to require near constant “entertainment,” but long enough to feel unsure just how to fill it. I have the idea that some of that pressure would be eased with longer ones, as it is much more of an authentic companionship experience that is based a bit more on “being” than necessarily “doing.” Of course the pressure to stay desirable and in desire yourself for that long sounds rather intimidating!

I particularly agree with a blindfold or massage as a way to tune out for a few minutes, even during shorter appointments. Having some time to be able to disengage, roll and shut your eyes without coming off as a cunt can be a game changer! A luxurious body-to-body massage or just light, long strokes all over the body is a fantastic, and genuinely enjoyable way to eat time (unless the client is THAT physically repulsive—eek!).