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		By: Stripper Music Monday: Nickelback Edition		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Stripper Music Monday: Nickelback Edition]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2014 14:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] Goddamn Hilarious?Man Calls Cops on Stripper That Won’t Screw Him: Stripping Isn’t Sex Work LiteStripper Music Monday: The Sad Stripper Trope ExemplifiedSin City (2005) and Sin City: A Dame To Kill For (2014)Activist Spotlight Interview: PJ Starr On [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Goddamn Hilarious?Man Calls Cops on Stripper That Won’t Screw Him: Stripping Isn’t Sex Work LiteStripper Music Monday: The Sad Stripper Trope ExemplifiedSin City (2005) and Sin City: A Dame To Kill For (2014)Activist Spotlight Interview: PJ Starr On [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Sin City (2005) and Sin City: A Dame To Kill For (2014)		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sin City (2005) and Sin City: A Dame To Kill For (2014)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2014 14:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] the second film Nancy has become bitter and unhinged. She’s definitely not adhering to the sad stripper trope; she’s very angry. Nancy starts drinking, which leads to an unhealthy fixation, which leads to [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] the second film Nancy has become bitter and unhinged. She’s definitely not adhering to the sad stripper trope; she’s very angry. Nancy starts drinking, which leads to an unhealthy fixation, which leads to [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Lindsay		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lindsay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2014 12:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s a very good point from Amanda above! When everyone makes money, no one is sad..

Yet I&#039;ve seen example of &quot;sad strippers&quot; but those have problems with there own lifes. Problems that they are affraid to face or they can not solve. Like the girl in the video, she has issues with her own dad, she can not be honest with him like &quot;Look dad, I&#039;m going to be a dancer. I need the money. I respect your opinion but you should respect my choise.&quot; If they work in the local bakery, they would have the same issues just different solution. Probably obesity. Just in the night alcohol and drugs are easier to reach.

And I&#039;m often wondering about customers who come every second night to the club, drunk and/or high and spending stupid money on someone who shows them a little love and attention... so who is the sad here?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a very good point from Amanda above! When everyone makes money, no one is sad..</p>
<p>Yet I&#8217;ve seen example of &#8220;sad strippers&#8221; but those have problems with there own lifes. Problems that they are affraid to face or they can not solve. Like the girl in the video, she has issues with her own dad, she can not be honest with him like &#8220;Look dad, I&#8217;m going to be a dancer. I need the money. I respect your opinion but you should respect my choise.&#8221; If they work in the local bakery, they would have the same issues just different solution. Probably obesity. Just in the night alcohol and drugs are easier to reach.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m often wondering about customers who come every second night to the club, drunk and/or high and spending stupid money on someone who shows them a little love and attention&#8230; so who is the sad here?</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2014 22:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-182069&quot;&gt;L.White&lt;/a&gt;.

Yeah, sorry, all material on this site is by and for sex workers, with vague exceptions in cases like a sex worker interviewing a non-sex worker, a sex worker collaborating with a non-sex worker, etc. BUT that&#039;s a great idea! We&#039;d love someone to review Satisfaction for us, so if you had a Satisfaction fan sex worker friend you could team up to write such a review with, that&#039;d be awesome.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-182069">L.White</a>.</p>
<p>Yeah, sorry, all material on this site is by and for sex workers, with vague exceptions in cases like a sex worker interviewing a non-sex worker, a sex worker collaborating with a non-sex worker, etc. BUT that&#8217;s a great idea! We&#8217;d love someone to review Satisfaction for us, so if you had a Satisfaction fan sex worker friend you could team up to write such a review with, that&#8217;d be awesome.</p>
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		By: L.White		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[L.White]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2014 19:51:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-173826&quot;&gt;Caty Simon&lt;/a&gt;.

(Psst - not sure if it&#039;s politically correct to say this but Satisfaction is up on Thepiratebay if you want to download it ;) Pretty good quality, too!)
Also I would love to write a little something about the show for you - except I&#039;m not actually a sex worker, just an interested feminist. ^^&quot; (I mean, if I understood correctly, the published material on this site is primarily written by sex workers so perhaps I wouldn&#039;t be qualified. ^^)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-173826">Caty Simon</a>.</p>
<p>(Psst &#8211; not sure if it&#8217;s politically correct to say this but Satisfaction is up on Thepiratebay if you want to download it 😉 Pretty good quality, too!)<br />
Also I would love to write a little something about the show for you &#8211; except I&#8217;m not actually a sex worker, just an interested feminist. ^^&#8221; (I mean, if I understood correctly, the published material on this site is primarily written by sex workers so perhaps I wouldn&#8217;t be qualified. ^^)</p>
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		By: Sophia Seductions		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sophia Seductions]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2014 18:26:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love this site! Love the articles, love the comments.... Thanks for being and so glad I found u actually through my personal fb page from a friends posting! Sites like this help me to stay in education process - Keep it up and again thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this site! Love the articles, love the comments&#8230;. Thanks for being and so glad I found u actually through my personal fb page from a friends posting! Sites like this help me to stay in education process &#8211; Keep it up and again thanks!</p>
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		By: Amanda		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2014 13:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Anyone who has ever worked in a strip club for one night knows that being all sad and depressed and crying on stage means NO MONEY. All strippers have bad days (we&#039;re human) but no one makes money by trotting out their deepest depression in front of a drunken audience. Especially given how many customers come in with the express intention of making a stripper cry. You have to go to the job every night with battle-tank-quality mental armor. 

Angry makes more money than sad, that&#039;s for sure. 

re: Satisfaction -- It&#039;s Australian. They don&#039;t have the hangups around sex that the UK and US does. Colonization by criminals instead of religious nuts has been a fairly successful social experiment, IMO.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone who has ever worked in a strip club for one night knows that being all sad and depressed and crying on stage means NO MONEY. All strippers have bad days (we&#8217;re human) but no one makes money by trotting out their deepest depression in front of a drunken audience. Especially given how many customers come in with the express intention of making a stripper cry. You have to go to the job every night with battle-tank-quality mental armor. </p>
<p>Angry makes more money than sad, that&#8217;s for sure. </p>
<p>re: Satisfaction &#8212; It&#8217;s Australian. They don&#8217;t have the hangups around sex that the UK and US does. Colonization by criminals instead of religious nuts has been a fairly successful social experiment, IMO.</p>
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		By: Caty Simon		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caty Simon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2014 17:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-173822&quot;&gt;L.White&lt;/a&gt;.

Off topic, but I SO wanted to watch Satisfaction--it used to be on Netflix, but they took it off. Anyone know of where else I can watch it in the US? Also, we&#039;d love it if someone wrote about the show for us at Tits and Sass.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/stripper-music-monday-beech-epitomizes-the-sad-stripper-trope/#comment-173822">L.White</a>.</p>
<p>Off topic, but I SO wanted to watch Satisfaction&#8211;it used to be on Netflix, but they took it off. Anyone know of where else I can watch it in the US? Also, we&#8217;d love it if someone wrote about the show for us at Tits and Sass.</p>
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		By: L.White		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[L.White]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2014 17:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;But how many ANGRY STRIPPERS are there in movies, music videos, TV shows, books….? There aren’t any. There are only sad ones.&quot;

It may be about prostitution rather than stripping, but this is the main reason why I was so happy to discover the Australian show &quot;Satisfaction&quot; - finally, a story about sex workers who actually make the conscious decision of taking up the job (for lots of different reasons, too) and have personalities that go beyond the boohoo-I-sold-my-soul trope that you always see. 
Otherwise, movies like &quot;Dancing at the Blue Iguana&quot;, &quot;Exotica&quot; and &quot;Showgirls&quot; have one or two angry strippers, though they do tend to soak in a rather blue, morose mood for the most part. (Though, the Blue Iguana does have some great fraternizing - dare I say &quot;humanizing&quot; - scenes between the strippers themselves, and the fact that the actors were prompted to &quot;improvise&quot; in order to bring depths to their own characters makes for some pretty interesting personalities.) 
As for novels, asides from Belle de Jour&#039;s journals I have yet to read novels with a happy sex worker as main character (or even as secondary characters.) But at least there are one or two representations that go further than the eternal &quot;sad stripper&quot;! Will definitely keep searching for more, I know there must be at least /some/ obscure novels out there. ^^]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But how many ANGRY STRIPPERS are there in movies, music videos, TV shows, books….? There aren’t any. There are only sad ones.&#8221;</p>
<p>It may be about prostitution rather than stripping, but this is the main reason why I was so happy to discover the Australian show &#8220;Satisfaction&#8221; &#8211; finally, a story about sex workers who actually make the conscious decision of taking up the job (for lots of different reasons, too) and have personalities that go beyond the boohoo-I-sold-my-soul trope that you always see.<br />
Otherwise, movies like &#8220;Dancing at the Blue Iguana&#8221;, &#8220;Exotica&#8221; and &#8220;Showgirls&#8221; have one or two angry strippers, though they do tend to soak in a rather blue, morose mood for the most part. (Though, the Blue Iguana does have some great fraternizing &#8211; dare I say &#8220;humanizing&#8221; &#8211; scenes between the strippers themselves, and the fact that the actors were prompted to &#8220;improvise&#8221; in order to bring depths to their own characters makes for some pretty interesting personalities.)<br />
As for novels, asides from Belle de Jour&#8217;s journals I have yet to read novels with a happy sex worker as main character (or even as secondary characters.) But at least there are one or two representations that go further than the eternal &#8220;sad stripper&#8221;! Will definitely keep searching for more, I know there must be at least /some/ obscure novels out there. ^^</p>
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		By: Milica		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Milica]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2014 14:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[And of course, we will have the pity party justification of the video AFTER we enjoy all the strippers&#039; beautiful sexiness first....oh and the whole father bit coming in to stare at her a bit to shame her was creepy as fuck but a nice summary to these patriarchal tropes I suppose]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And of course, we will have the pity party justification of the video AFTER we enjoy all the strippers&#8217; beautiful sexiness first&#8230;.oh and the whole father bit coming in to stare at her a bit to shame her was creepy as fuck but a nice summary to these patriarchal tropes I suppose</p>
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