Its such a unique crime, because it always comes with the feeling of shame and with shame comes some idea that you somehow could have prevented or stopped it or some weight of personal responsibility. Its not like just flat out anger where you’re right, they’re wrong and that’s the end of it.

Nobody should be abused through the course of their way of making a living, nor by someone you love or trust. That’s the crux of it and all the rest is just ‘yip, yip, yip in your tiny indignation, lady dog’. Its just noise for noise sake, oh and throwing off, making excuses etc.