https://titsandsass.com/quote-of-the-week-april-28th/ By and about sex workers Thu, 18 Jul 2013 15:40:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 https://titsandsass.com/quote-of-the-week-april-28th/#comment-6656 Mon, 29 Apr 2013 16:34:41 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=11718#comment-6656 Gotta agree with Mistress Matisse on this one — I’m not a dancer, so I can’t comment on the “shared space” aspect of the particular extras discussion that’s been at Tits and Sass the last bit, but for indie dominatrixes (you know, people who are not put at risk for arrest by other SW’s activities), there is just no damn excuse that isn’t just plain old hating sex workers. As a relatively “non-permissive” domme, I find that, not only do more permissive dommes not hurt my business, but we symbiotically help each other — or more accurately, we are damn different markets and really competing for very few of the same clients. And you know what? Lots of my clients ask for handjobs or PIV or all sorts of things that I don’t do. And most of them, when I say “No, sorry I can’t/won’t provide that for you,” shrug and book with me anyway. People, clients or otherwise, will often just see if something’s on offer, but if you say no, that doesn’t mean you’ve lost them as a client (and if you have, then they weren’t really “your” clients in the first place, because they were looking for something you don’t provide. Other SW’s don’t enter into it.)

]]> https://titsandsass.com/quote-of-the-week-april-28th/#comment-6639 Sun, 28 Apr 2013 22:11:29 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=11718#comment-6639 LOVE this. How many times have I had the “she’s not a domme, she’s a hooker with a whip” conversation? Way too many! http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/control-tower/Content?oid=2418318
Nicely said, Mistress Ouch.

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