Comments on: MTV’s True Life Confirms that Sugarbabydom is a Hassle

By: claire

claire — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 02:04:50 +0000

I tired sugar dating sites but the guys there are crazy, I had a 65 year old man tell me he wants a girl to want him for his body, not for money.” He was pushy over dinner he was trying to get a test drive , said he had to try before he buys and he wants a girl to prove herself!
All guys I have meet have been timewasters, weirdo, narcissists, cheap, ugly guys who have not had a date in years and they don’t have a clue how to treat girls.
Because they are rich or make promises of allowances they think a girl has to work to impress them with free sex. These sites are full of guys trying to use naive vulnerable young woman. It’s very sad.
I went there to these sites thinking I would find one nice gentleman for a relationship with financial support, I thought it would be safer and more social accepted than escort.
After wasting a year on sugar sites I am now thinking about getting into escorting.

By: A non-hypocrite

A non-hypocrite — Fri, 29 Aug 2014 17:36:24 +0000

In reply to Lovings Webmistress. I have never had a sugar baby or gone to an escort but I agree with you. Men want sex and women want money out of these arrangements. Why not make it legal for people to get what they want? Everyone looks down on escorts but they are a lot more honest than these women and the legions of women who marry men because of their money.

By: Carmen

Carmen — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 22:39:39 +0000

Gosh, I’ve only watched 5 minutes. Steve is so gross.

By: Lovings Webmistress

Lovings Webmistress — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 00:50:50 +0000

It boggles my mind that swindling hopeful men & women out of loads of money with implications of sex is more socially/legally acceptable than delivering an honest service.

By: ktown

ktown — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 04:28:19 +0000

i did the SB thing as a way to make $ and have sex. i just wanted to have sex and get cash, but so many of the guys were creeps and trying to vet them and go through all this bullshit was OBNOXIOUS. i would love to get into straight escorting but i dont know how! plus im cute as hell but overweight, and not sure how that translates to escorting. am i totally naive here? the two encounters i had on seekingarrangement, i had sex with 2 men (separately) and got $300 for each time. could i have charged more? i played the “im a grad student and need help with school” angle, because thats the truth. i got a lot of interest from men praising my intelligence and scholarly ambition, which i liked, but had to deal with way too much extraneous bullshit, which i hated.

By: Polly Vincere

Polly Vincere — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 18:04:39 +0000

I’ve been active on SD sites for almost 2 months. Thus far, I’ve met more creeps than nice guys. What’s said above about many of them just wanting pay-for-play at cheaper rates is definitely true. They also take every opportunity to say something flirtatious.

HOWEVER

I knew when I signed up for those sites that would be an expectation. At 33 years old, and after years of education through the sex blogging world, I know what my boundaries and expectation are. I think many women get involved in SD relationships without having realistic expectations and BOUNDARIES.
AND
It IS SEX WORK if I have sex in exchange for anything other than sex. I know that. I’m very clear with any SD that safer sex will ALWAYS be practiced. Thus far, they’ve been just fine with that.
AND
I’ve met some pretty nice men who truly didn’t expect me to have sex with them because they bought me dinner or a dress. Those relationships never matured because *I* wasn’t attracted to *them.*

It’s important to realize you are worth more than any amount of money they have. You don’t have to compromise yourself to get what you need if you are firm in your boundaries and have realistic expectations. It can be a roller coaster, but thus far I’m enjoying it.

By: Bettie

Bettie — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 21:16:00 +0000

I have never had success on SD websites, but I will admit it’s probably because of me. I do want to go back to it as a side thing, especially considering the city I live in, so I will be taking Cecilia’s info to heart. Why not use it as a way to make more money?

By: theswjournal

theswjournal — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 06:14:01 +0000

I tried a SD website and was disappointed. I met many women, mostly in college. Their looks were not as good as the pros that I was accustomed to, yet their expectations were higher.

The women were very fake and materialistic.

My thought process was that I would graduate from the massage parlour scene which I had grown to love to something more mature.

How wrong I was. I found the SD scene to be similar to dating, just worse *sigh*.

What I thought was most interesting was the general ignorance these women had concerning the sex industry. They really felt as if they were doing me a favor.

I dropped this bad habbit after a few short months.

Sugar Daddy culture has no future in America IMHO.

By: Cecilia

Cecilia — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 23:50:35 +0000

word your profile “and” screen incoming requests

By: Cecilia

Cecilia — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 23:49:38 +0000

MC, I cannot count how many guys are simultaneously on SD sites and escort forums (as hobbyists). There are all kinds of men on SD sites, but I assure you, many MANY of them are all for the pay4play model. And many MANY of them are thrilled to the bone to find a woman on an SD site (an “SB”) who will simply state her hourly rates.

If you didn’t find any, you didn’t try hard enough. Sorry, but true. I make 6 figures a year off SD sites and started banking the very week I started using them. It’s just a matter of knowing how to word your profile screen the incoming requests.