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		By: In the News (#557) &#124; The Honest Courtesan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[In the News (#557) &#124; The Honest Courtesan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2015 10:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] Kudos to Margaret Corvid for being willing to eat crow with a good heart: [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Kudos to Margaret Corvid for being willing to eat crow with a good heart: [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Rebecca C		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rebecca C]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2015 01:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I was feeling optimistic about the article, and you have some good points. I&#039;m not an author and don&#039;t really read many online publications. Thankyou pastachips for your comment above. It made me search online (as to be honest I followed a trail here via twitter - I&#039;d not even heard of New Statesman) and one of the first articles I read started with &quot;When we talk about “sex work”, we endorse the idea that sex is labour for women and leisure for men&quot;. This seems to imply men/trans aren&#039;t sex workers, and women can&#039;t enjoy fucking for money? (as I do?)
http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2014/12/why-we-shouldnt-rebrand-prostitution-sex-work

I&#039;m am hoping Margaret your views and passion help to balance articles like this written by Sarah Ditum.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was feeling optimistic about the article, and you have some good points. I&#8217;m not an author and don&#8217;t really read many online publications. Thankyou pastachips for your comment above. It made me search online (as to be honest I followed a trail here via twitter &#8211; I&#8217;d not even heard of New Statesman) and one of the first articles I read started with &#8220;When we talk about “sex work”, we endorse the idea that sex is labour for women and leisure for men&#8221;. This seems to imply men/trans aren&#8217;t sex workers, and women can&#8217;t enjoy fucking for money? (as I do?)<br />
<a href="http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2014/12/why-we-shouldnt-rebrand-prostitution-sex-work" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2014/12/why-we-shouldnt-rebrand-prostitution-sex-work</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m am hoping Margaret your views and passion help to balance articles like this written by Sarah Ditum.</p>
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		By: Margaret Corvid		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Margaret Corvid]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2015 14:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/its-not-about-me-responsibility-in-sex-worker-writing/#comment-951823&quot;&gt;Ms Sassy Sherry&lt;/a&gt;.

Please do feel free to contact me if I can help with anything :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/its-not-about-me-responsibility-in-sex-worker-writing/#comment-951823">Ms Sassy Sherry</a>.</p>
<p>Please do feel free to contact me if I can help with anything 🙂</p>
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		By: pastachips		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[pastachips]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2015 13:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Margaret,

I&#039;m a bit confused by this to be honest. You write, &quot;when you write about sex work, keep your allegiance to the movement, not to your editor or publication&quot;. Sorry, but what does this mean? It feels a bit self-congratulatory to write about your &quot;allegiance to the movement&quot; and your &quot;accountability&quot; to the movement - I&#039;m not totally sure what this looks like in theory, and tbh I don&#039;t feel like I&#039;ve seen it from you in practise? For example, when *several* SW-led organisations in the UK were planning to call a strike in terms of sex worker activists participating in a particular (exploitative) media event, that collective of organisations couldn&#039;t put that strike together because you pre-emptively decided to break it, to participate in that media event against what you knew were the wishes &#038; advice of SW-led orgs - and the reason you cited for your participation was precisely your loyalty to your editor and publication. Which took precedence over us. I wouldn&#039;t bring this up - its history, albeit recent history - but it is strange to see you writing here about your &quot;loyalty&quot; and &quot;accountability&quot; to &#039;the movement&#039;. It feels like *you&#039;ve* chosen to bring it up, and yet your self-reporting of your own qualities doesn&#039;t match up with the reality. To give another example, you talk here about how &quot;lucky&quot; you are that your &quot;home publication, the New Statesman&quot; gives you such freedom. That&#039;s great for you, but you must be aware that the New Statesman is *notorious* for propogating a feminism that is whorephobic, racist, and transmisogynist. If you search twitter, you will find numerous examples of your editor deflecting criticism of her whorephobia and the whorephobia she consistently commissions by citing the existence of your column. Your writing at the NS is literally being used to deflect and shut down sex workers&#039; and allies&#039; concerns about NS whorephobia. Are you happy to have your writing used like that? Is that an instance of your &quot;accountability&quot; to sex workers? Maybe rather than writing how accountable to the movement you are (&#038; receiving all these acollades in the comments for being such a great person), you should have ... asked &#039;the movement&#039;? Isn&#039;t that how SW activism is supposed to work - asking the people effected? 

I know that this will probably inevitably feel like an attack. It&#039;s not meant to be - it is meant to be critical of your self-representation above, obviously. I&#039;ve fucked up too, and I get that this is hard, but I&#039;m pretty sure I&#039;m not the only UK-based SW who read this article with a degree of disbelief. You&#039;re a good writer, but I don&#039;t think your thinking on accountability is as rigorous as you&#039;ve portrayed it here.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Margaret,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a bit confused by this to be honest. You write, &#8220;when you write about sex work, keep your allegiance to the movement, not to your editor or publication&#8221;. Sorry, but what does this mean? It feels a bit self-congratulatory to write about your &#8220;allegiance to the movement&#8221; and your &#8220;accountability&#8221; to the movement &#8211; I&#8217;m not totally sure what this looks like in theory, and tbh I don&#8217;t feel like I&#8217;ve seen it from you in practise? For example, when *several* SW-led organisations in the UK were planning to call a strike in terms of sex worker activists participating in a particular (exploitative) media event, that collective of organisations couldn&#8217;t put that strike together because you pre-emptively decided to break it, to participate in that media event against what you knew were the wishes &amp; advice of SW-led orgs &#8211; and the reason you cited for your participation was precisely your loyalty to your editor and publication. Which took precedence over us. I wouldn&#8217;t bring this up &#8211; its history, albeit recent history &#8211; but it is strange to see you writing here about your &#8220;loyalty&#8221; and &#8220;accountability&#8221; to &#8216;the movement&#8217;. It feels like *you&#8217;ve* chosen to bring it up, and yet your self-reporting of your own qualities doesn&#8217;t match up with the reality. To give another example, you talk here about how &#8220;lucky&#8221; you are that your &#8220;home publication, the New Statesman&#8221; gives you such freedom. That&#8217;s great for you, but you must be aware that the New Statesman is *notorious* for propogating a feminism that is whorephobic, racist, and transmisogynist. If you search twitter, you will find numerous examples of your editor deflecting criticism of her whorephobia and the whorephobia she consistently commissions by citing the existence of your column. Your writing at the NS is literally being used to deflect and shut down sex workers&#8217; and allies&#8217; concerns about NS whorephobia. Are you happy to have your writing used like that? Is that an instance of your &#8220;accountability&#8221; to sex workers? Maybe rather than writing how accountable to the movement you are (&amp; receiving all these acollades in the comments for being such a great person), you should have &#8230; asked &#8216;the movement&#8217;? Isn&#8217;t that how SW activism is supposed to work &#8211; asking the people effected? </p>
<p>I know that this will probably inevitably feel like an attack. It&#8217;s not meant to be &#8211; it is meant to be critical of your self-representation above, obviously. I&#8217;ve fucked up too, and I get that this is hard, but I&#8217;m pretty sure I&#8217;m not the only UK-based SW who read this article with a degree of disbelief. You&#8217;re a good writer, but I don&#8217;t think your thinking on accountability is as rigorous as you&#8217;ve portrayed it here.</p>
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		By: Devora Gray		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/its-not-about-me-responsibility-in-sex-worker-writing/#comment-952388</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Devora Gray]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2015 04:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks so much for the thoughtful breakdown of this topic, Margaret! First, as much as I advocate legalization, kindness, and engaging in conversation on all forms of sexuality, it&#039;s a daunting task to consider, how do I talk about the horrendous working circumstances for some sex workers without killing the &quot;vibe&quot; of empowerment? Meaning, if I&#039;m talking to a single person or a group, I encourage an open-minded, light-hearted interest that coincides with fantasies and passions they have yet to reveal and look at. The more they experiment and play, the more empowered they become. In my head, and with enough hard work and dedication, the future I see is made of sex workers and advocates demanding protection and change and we&#039;re thankful for those in better situations, better educations and working environments. They are the visionaries who know it can and must get better for the survival of the whole. Then there&#039;s this GAP. How to include a call to arms for all those empowered sexually-explorative creatures to fight for those who have not been given that choice? Obviously, you&#039;re doing it with articles like this and now I&#039;m brainstorming the kind of influence necessary to bring about such change...Long story short, how do we to educate and empower without making the victims more victimized?

Thanks again,
Devora]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for the thoughtful breakdown of this topic, Margaret! First, as much as I advocate legalization, kindness, and engaging in conversation on all forms of sexuality, it&#8217;s a daunting task to consider, how do I talk about the horrendous working circumstances for some sex workers without killing the &#8220;vibe&#8221; of empowerment? Meaning, if I&#8217;m talking to a single person or a group, I encourage an open-minded, light-hearted interest that coincides with fantasies and passions they have yet to reveal and look at. The more they experiment and play, the more empowered they become. In my head, and with enough hard work and dedication, the future I see is made of sex workers and advocates demanding protection and change and we&#8217;re thankful for those in better situations, better educations and working environments. They are the visionaries who know it can and must get better for the survival of the whole. Then there&#8217;s this GAP. How to include a call to arms for all those empowered sexually-explorative creatures to fight for those who have not been given that choice? Obviously, you&#8217;re doing it with articles like this and now I&#8217;m brainstorming the kind of influence necessary to bring about such change&#8230;Long story short, how do we to educate and empower without making the victims more victimized?</p>
<p>Thanks again,<br />
Devora</p>
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		By: Esther Shannon		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Esther Shannon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2015 18:44:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Margaret, I&#039;m an ally to the sex worker movement and read your piece from the FIRST list serve - FIRST is a Canadian coalition of feminists who support sex worker rights. 
Anyway, just want to say that I think the article is really terrific - covers all the bases and will be a really helpful dos and don&#039;t reminder for all who write on sex work. 

Esther]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Margaret, I&#8217;m an ally to the sex worker movement and read your piece from the FIRST list serve &#8211; FIRST is a Canadian coalition of feminists who support sex worker rights.<br />
Anyway, just want to say that I think the article is really terrific &#8211; covers all the bases and will be a really helpful dos and don&#8217;t reminder for all who write on sex work. </p>
<p>Esther</p>
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		By: Ms Sassy Sherry		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ms Sassy Sherry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2015 18:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much for the great piece here.  You have made me more aware of a few things I need to include, and sometime not inckude, when I write.
I&#039;ve only written a few pieces so far, mainly for our website blog, have gotten a lot of praise for them, but you are on target, when you suggest the never-ending learning one must do.
As a newbie to activism but a lifer in the Commercial Sex industry (over 35 years) there is ALWAYS an opportunity to expand your skills, be it in writing or turning tricks.
I would love for some critique on the few pieces I&#039;ve written so far, if you&#039;re ever uo to it or just have nothing else to do, but me up, I feel you might be overbearingly honest with me on them, lol, for which I would appreciate .

Peace and Smiles,
Ms Sassy Sherry
SWOP San Antonio]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for the great piece here.  You have made me more aware of a few things I need to include, and sometime not inckude, when I write.<br />
I&#8217;ve only written a few pieces so far, mainly for our website blog, have gotten a lot of praise for them, but you are on target, when you suggest the never-ending learning one must do.<br />
As a newbie to activism but a lifer in the Commercial Sex industry (over 35 years) there is ALWAYS an opportunity to expand your skills, be it in writing or turning tricks.<br />
I would love for some critique on the few pieces I&#8217;ve written so far, if you&#8217;re ever uo to it or just have nothing else to do, but me up, I feel you might be overbearingly honest with me on them, lol, for which I would appreciate .</p>
<p>Peace and Smiles,<br />
Ms Sassy Sherry<br />
SWOP San Antonio</p>
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		By: Sandra Gibson		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandra Gibson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2015 10:53:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lucid, comprehensive and scrupulous.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lucid, comprehensive and scrupulous.</p>
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