Couldn’t have said it better.

When I eventually do leave sex work, I won’t call myself a survivor of it. It plays into the ‘prostitutes are inevitably damaged by their work’ idea.

Yeah, you look pretty privileged to me as well Stella. Its cool though if you wanna self identify as survivor of prostitution if that makes you feel better, knock yourself out. You can be whoever you want. But you have a really strong need to LABEL others as survivors of prostitution because you feel like a survivor and that I take issue with. For many (i would argue most) sex work is a j.o.b. hence the word “work” in sex work. Being forced to have sex with someone against your will … there’s another word for that and it isn’t “work”

Yeah, I’m late to respond and after reading all the responses i probably should just let Miss Stella get in the last word but when the abolitionists show up in fancy hats and start spewing you’re a victim, you’re a victim, you’re a victim, it gets my dander up