Comments on: Beauty is in the Eye of the Beerholder https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/ By and about sex workers Wed, 06 Mar 2013 20:05:43 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 By: Roxanne https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5731 Wed, 06 Mar 2013 20:05:43 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5731 Love this post, and I agree wholeheartedly that above all else the sex industry is about service and personality. Yes, there are men who come to the clubs and are only looking for a body – any body – but really when it comes down to it those are not the customers you see long term.
I work at a club in the Midwest, and I would say we are a bit luckier as far as a variety of body types being hired on. Some of that is because we have fewer dancers knocking at the door to be hired, and also because many of the girls who fit into the “ideal” body type are flaky, drugged up, get pass-out drunk on the job, don’t have a clue how to talk to customers, etc etc.
You’ll hear customers make rude comments from time to time about the “quality” of girls, but again those are the customers who are not really spending money, not really getting to know the girls, not potential long-term customers. They will be there for a night and you’ll never see them again, and I usually don’t invest any time in talking to them.
Our owner doesn’t pay any attention to complaints about body type with exception to a few girls who have come in and been outright obese. He’s slow to fire a girl and quick to work with them on any issues that might come up with work.
I’ve told more than a few guys where they can put their small dicks when they make rude remarks about girls I work with. Sure, this *could* hurt my earnings, but I work with these girls day in and day out, we are all in this together and in my eyes each and every one of them is beautiful in their own way.
The one thing I do not defend however are girls who are bitchy without cause, drunk or high. *shrug*

And, let me say I think you are beautiful! 🙂

]]> By: CMW https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5723 Wed, 06 Mar 2013 00:16:42 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5723 Whoa, those club owners don’t know which side their bread’s buttered on! In my experience curvier women (of whom I was/am one) typically do rather nicely in the sex industry. Men like ’em/us, actually, despite all the anti-‘fat’ propaganda. Hope you manage to find a good place to work.

]]> By: Elle https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5656 Thu, 28 Feb 2013 04:45:20 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5656 Yes, yes yes.

]]> By: Gia https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5647 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 18:21:26 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5647 You look like a beautiful Rococo painting so I love you. I’d pay to see you dance any day!

]]> By: Ayna https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5646 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 17:23:39 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5646 In reply to Berlin.

As a over the avg cam girl- I get the same feedback. I get more private show requests, and the $ semi rolls in- but the actual chat room is full of fat shaming.

]]> By: Berlin https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5626 Mon, 25 Feb 2013 01:23:48 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5626 I feel you! Man, do I feel you! I am a fat femme escort and I can’t even tell you how crazy it makes me when guys write positive reviews of plus-sized escorts they’ve seen only to be shamed and made fun of by other guys in the comments. I just don’t get the comments, truthfully. There will be always be a comment like, “If you want to fuck a fat girl, there’s plenty on POF who will fuck you for free.” And it’s like, dude chose to pay this woman and had a wonderful time, so why the fuck do you give a shit? No one is going on thin-escort review threads and making similar comments. There will never be a guy on a thin girls thread going, ” Eh, to each their own, but skinny just doesn’t do it for me.” Drives me batty.

]]> By: Poppy https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5625 Sun, 24 Feb 2013 23:35:49 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5625 In reply to Wendy.

Wendy! So nice to hear from you! Sorry about my room mate. He is pretty intensely awkward about almost everything, especially girls. And thanks for all the lovely compliments. You are so sweet and rad. I wish we could of worked together more.
I am actually posted up in Oakland, CA now. Hope to be back in Portland sometime soon, but seeing what the bay area has to offer this time round. Not sure where you are, but wanna email me with your deets, I would love to run into you sometime!! miss poppy cox (at) gmail dot com

xx

]]> By: Wendy https://titsandsass.com/beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beerholder/#comment-5579 Fri, 22 Feb 2013 20:57:47 +0000 https://titsandsass.com/?p=9968#comment-5579 OMG! HI POPPY!!!!!! It’s me, Wendy, from last year!!!!!! Remember?!?!?! Your roommate stopped talking to me after he had an embarrassing sexual experience!

YOU ARE SOOO BEAUTIFUL!!!! I thought you looked like a beautiful pinup or painting from the moment you walked into work, and I thought, “Oh no, I’m not going to make money now, she’s so pretty” and I am a stripper who fits the mainstream beauty standards even though I don’t shave my pussy either.

This blog is awesome, isn’t it? Have you written on it before? I discovered it a few months ago. Anyway, fuck those places. I’ll bet Union Jacks and Rose City was one of them. FUCK EM. Go to a different town maybe, I’m never going back to Portland.

<3 Hang in there, you are extremely beautiful, smart and charming!!!!!

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