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		By: John Punter		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2014 21:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[(Slight tangent warning)  Strippers have often told me that it&#039;s illegal for the bartender to slip them a virgin version of a cocktail, unbeknownst to the custy.  Obvious need for legislative action, if that&#039;s really true.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Slight tangent warning)  Strippers have often told me that it&#8217;s illegal for the bartender to slip them a virgin version of a cocktail, unbeknownst to the custy.  Obvious need for legislative action, if that&#8217;s really true.</p>
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		By: jenny heineman		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 15:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820&quot;&gt;Bella Robinson&lt;/a&gt;.

It’s really quite backwards to censor a movement because of the false perceptions of its opposition. Censorship will never pave the road to human rights.  

The master’s tools…]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820">Bella Robinson</a>.</p>
<p>It’s really quite backwards to censor a movement because of the false perceptions of its opposition. Censorship will never pave the road to human rights.  </p>
<p>The master’s tools…</p>
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		By: story		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-86447</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2014 00:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[i slept in my car a LOT when i was stripping, not because i was drinking but because i was traveling. the tips given were great - i personally preferred the lighted parking lots of big box stores since many garages and hotel parking lots have attendants who knock on the window to tell you it&#039;s not a place to sleep. unfortunately, all the options for places to sleep require some driving which isn&#039;t a great option. still, if your abode is farther away than a big box parking lot, harm reduction suggests making the shorter drive. i don&#039;t think sleeping in the club parking lot is a good idea. 

i also put velcro around my windows and made curtains out of sheets that i could velcro to my windows. this stopped nosy people from peeking in. finally, make sure you are walked out to your vehicle and are not being followed. inebriation can lead to lack of awareness about skeezy customers trying to follow you. if customers know you are drunk, they are more likely to see you as a target so upping your own care about their proximity to you when you leave the club is a healthy idea.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i slept in my car a LOT when i was stripping, not because i was drinking but because i was traveling. the tips given were great &#8211; i personally preferred the lighted parking lots of big box stores since many garages and hotel parking lots have attendants who knock on the window to tell you it&#8217;s not a place to sleep. unfortunately, all the options for places to sleep require some driving which isn&#8217;t a great option. still, if your abode is farther away than a big box parking lot, harm reduction suggests making the shorter drive. i don&#8217;t think sleeping in the club parking lot is a good idea. </p>
<p>i also put velcro around my windows and made curtains out of sheets that i could velcro to my windows. this stopped nosy people from peeking in. finally, make sure you are walked out to your vehicle and are not being followed. inebriation can lead to lack of awareness about skeezy customers trying to follow you. if customers know you are drunk, they are more likely to see you as a target so upping your own care about their proximity to you when you leave the club is a healthy idea.</p>
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		By: Lease		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-76892</link>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2014 02:26:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I work in harm reduction for drug users and am a drug user myself. I am not, nor have I ever been a sex worker. I really enjoy reading tits n sass and I am sad to see posts by sex workers saying admitting drug use &#039;hurts&#039; the fight for human rights. Imagine it was reversed and drug user advocates were saying that nobody in harm reduction should admit to doing sex work or it would &#039;hurt the cause&#039;? 

It is a judgemental, useless argument because facts are facts, people do what they do and in what universe should admitting reality hurt a human rights movement? 

I don&#039;t get all huffy because people have assumed that because I&#039;m a good-looking drug user, that I must do sex work. In-fighting just weakens us. Respectability politics are played to ruin your movement&#039;s progress. Why not reject that and all labels placed upon you? 

Harm reduction saves lives. Harm reduction is free condoms, education, it&#039;s empowering. Harm reduction is not the glorification of drug use. It is the recognition that people do what they do and best they do that safely.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I work in harm reduction for drug users and am a drug user myself. I am not, nor have I ever been a sex worker. I really enjoy reading tits n sass and I am sad to see posts by sex workers saying admitting drug use &#8216;hurts&#8217; the fight for human rights. Imagine it was reversed and drug user advocates were saying that nobody in harm reduction should admit to doing sex work or it would &#8216;hurt the cause&#8217;? </p>
<p>It is a judgemental, useless argument because facts are facts, people do what they do and in what universe should admitting reality hurt a human rights movement? </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t get all huffy because people have assumed that because I&#8217;m a good-looking drug user, that I must do sex work. In-fighting just weakens us. Respectability politics are played to ruin your movement&#8217;s progress. Why not reject that and all labels placed upon you? </p>
<p>Harm reduction saves lives. Harm reduction is free condoms, education, it&#8217;s empowering. Harm reduction is not the glorification of drug use. It is the recognition that people do what they do and best they do that safely.</p>
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		By: Megs		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-74959</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2014 13:13:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m very excited to see a harm-reduction column on T&#038;S. I think it reflects a refusal on the part of the editors to ignore aspects of sex work and the realities of some workers because they don&#039;t fit some bullshit ideal of what all workers need to be. Telling someone they&#039;re failing your movement because of choices, needs and circumstances in their life that you cannot possibly fully  account for or understand is pretty goddamn useless. 

Harm reduction, however, saves lives.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m very excited to see a harm-reduction column on T&amp;S. I think it reflects a refusal on the part of the editors to ignore aspects of sex work and the realities of some workers because they don&#8217;t fit some bullshit ideal of what all workers need to be. Telling someone they&#8217;re failing your movement because of choices, needs and circumstances in their life that you cannot possibly fully  account for or understand is pretty goddamn useless. </p>
<p>Harm reduction, however, saves lives.</p>
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		By: Martine		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-74065</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 23:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I really love this a article!!!  Absolutely amazing idea for the website! Awesome! Congrats ;)]]></description>
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		By: Ms Harm Reduction &#124; DUAL Ottawa		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-74032</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ms Harm Reduction &#124; DUAL Ottawa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 22:33:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] Ms Harm Reduction [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Ms Harm Reduction [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Robin D		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 22:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820&quot;&gt;Bella Robinson&lt;/a&gt;.

Both letter writers work in the legal sex work industry actually.  They are strippers.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820">Bella Robinson</a>.</p>
<p>Both letter writers work in the legal sex work industry actually.  They are strippers.</p>
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		By: Berlin		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-73660</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 16:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820&quot;&gt;Bella Robinson&lt;/a&gt;.

Exactly, anti-trafficking, police, radfems are ALREADY linking our work to criminality and drug use---so why not focus on keeping ourselves safe in the here and now?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72820">Bella Robinson</a>.</p>
<p>Exactly, anti-trafficking, police, radfems are ALREADY linking our work to criminality and drug use&#8212;so why not focus on keeping ourselves safe in the here and now?</p>
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		By: Scarlet Heart		</title>
		<link>https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-73102</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 06:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72446&quot;&gt;Bella Robinson&lt;/a&gt;.

This column is neither glorifying drug use or assuming that all strippers are non-stop binge-drinking party heads. It takes into account that often yes you often are expected to imbibe when you are working at a club. Sad but unfortunately true. I know many girls who aren&#039;t huge drinkers and hate getting drunk at work, but it&#039;s what the customers and management sometimes encourage. I also know from working in a few of the larger high-profile brothels in Australia that if you are not what&#039;s known in the game as a &quot;party-girl&quot;, you will simply not get bookings. The clients straight-out ask if you party(ie: use drugs) and if you say no they ask for another girl. This is often actively encouraged by the management, I have heard of one or two madams who give girls cocaine or ice in order to create a party atmosphere. (this is mainly why I chose to work privately or only in genteel little boutique brothels because I prefer to not be around drugs) 
So yes I think this post is absolutely necessary in order to educate girls on how to handle this kind of thing, and I&#039;m about the most squeaky-clean person you could meet.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://titsandsass.com/ask-ms-harm-reduction/#comment-72446">Bella Robinson</a>.</p>
<p>This column is neither glorifying drug use or assuming that all strippers are non-stop binge-drinking party heads. It takes into account that often yes you often are expected to imbibe when you are working at a club. Sad but unfortunately true. I know many girls who aren&#8217;t huge drinkers and hate getting drunk at work, but it&#8217;s what the customers and management sometimes encourage. I also know from working in a few of the larger high-profile brothels in Australia that if you are not what&#8217;s known in the game as a &#8220;party-girl&#8221;, you will simply not get bookings. The clients straight-out ask if you party(ie: use drugs) and if you say no they ask for another girl. This is often actively encouraged by the management, I have heard of one or two madams who give girls cocaine or ice in order to create a party atmosphere. (this is mainly why I chose to work privately or only in genteel little boutique brothels because I prefer to not be around drugs)<br />
So yes I think this post is absolutely necessary in order to educate girls on how to handle this kind of thing, and I&#8217;m about the most squeaky-clean person you could meet.</p>
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