You might recognize this sentiment: the sex workers’ rights movement is funded by “the industry.” We are “the pimp lobby,” whether we’ve ever been in any sort of management role ourselves or not, let alone whether we’ve abused or exploited other workers. You might think it’s pretty easy to laugh at that sort of thing, but if you’ve ever spent any time going through the e-mails that sex workers’ rights organizations receive, you’ll hear a lot of this, even from people and organizations who are sympathetic. They’ll make assumptions about “staff”—”we want to meet your staff”—or they want to meet in “your office.” There are people who try to chat you up about nonprofit careers at events, thinking you have jobs to offer them. And so on. It would be funny if it weren’t so frustrating, and if people with nasty motives didn’t use these assumptions against us.
It’s human to overestimate the resources of others and to underestimate one’s own. But let’s have some real talk.
Management doesn’t want to fund the sex workers rights movement. They do not have an interest in our vision for social change beyond issues of their own legality. Don’t believe me? This is management in action, or more specifically, strip club managers in action, allying themselves with anti-trafficking organizations. Management-directed organizations want to cover their own asses and reap benefits from the REAL money spigot, the anti-trafficking movement, of the “End Demand” variety, funded by former ambassador and current filthy rich lady Swanee Hunt. You’d see the same from escort agencies if they were legal, and you already do see the same from the legal Nevada brothel industry. As it is, some of the individuals in sex work management give us mild, conditional support, sort of the same way clients do. You know the story—they have many more demands than they do contributions. I have never seen any of them donate money.
Radfems, the “pimp lobby” is pretty firmly on YOUR side on this one.
Mistress Devonia, a pro-Domme and Medical Science student from Sydney sends us a great Halloween cat, Mephistopheles.
“My beautiful Cornish Rex, Mephistopheles, suspiciously sniffing a fat stack. Then standing guard over it.”
Sex workers, send us your pictures of your dogs and dollars or cats and stacks to firstname.lastname@example.org. Include the name you’d like us to use, what kind of work you do, and a link to your site if you’d like.
Violet, an escort in Canada, writes, “This is my lazy border collie. She sticks her nose up my skirt every time I come home from a call at 2am, whuffs, and then we go to bed. The cash keeps her in raw local free-range bison patties.”
Sex workers, send us your pictures of your dogs and dollars or cats and stacks at email@example.com